What to do when someone dies
There is no rush to make decisions or take action at this stage, but you can call Family Tree at any time; we will tell you exactly what you need to do, and help and guide you through each of the different stages.
We will talk you through any aspects of the process that you need to know at this early stage. We will arrange a time to come and collect the person’s body to take them into their care until the funeral, if this is what you want. See also ‘Keeping the Body at Home’.
We will discuss the sort of funeral arrangements you and your family would like and make sure that you know what to do next.
Contact Family Tree FuneralsWe can be contacted on 01453 767769, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year
The Next Steps
1. Contact your doctor, even if it’s late at night.
If you know that you would like the person to be cremated tell your doctor, as they will need to prepare different forms and arrange for a second doctor to visit and countersign.
N.B. If the death was ‘sudden’ (i.e if the person had not been ‘attended by a medical practitioner during his or her last illness’, or had not been seen by a doctor during the last 14 days) the doctor will need to report the death to the coroner: they will also need to do this if it might be considered that the person died:
- Following an accident or injury
- Due to an industrial disease
- During a surgical operation
- If the cause of death is unknown
- Or if the death is unexplained.
If these apply, the person’s body will need to go to the coroner’s office for further examination. While this may be upsetting for the family, it is currently standard practice in one third of all deaths, and is unavoidable.
2. Contact a funeral director (Family Tree Funerals - 01453 767 769)
They will make sure that you know what to do and prepare you for the next steps; the authorities at each stage will be very helpful about what to do next as well.
Your funeral director will arrange a time to meet with you to discuss the funeral arrangements.
You can contact Family Tree on 01453 767 769 at any time for care and assistance 24/7.
3. Call the registrar of the district in which the death occurred
Gloucestershire Central Booking line: 01242 532 455
Stroud: The Old Victorian School, Parliament Street, Stroud, GL5 1DY 01452 425 275. Closed for lunch. 12.30- 1.30
Cheltenham: Council Offices, St. George’s Rd, GL50 3EW
Cirencester: Cirencester Library, The Waterloo, GL7 2PZ 1285 650 455. Check for opening times on the central booking line.
Forest of Dean: The Oaks, Belle Vue Centre, 6 Belle Vue Road, Cinderford, GL14 2AB Check for opening times on the central booking line.
Gloucester: 01452 425 275, Shire Hall, Westgate St. GL1 2TG
Moreton-in-Marsh: Moreton Library, Stow Road, GL56 0DR. Check for opening times on the central booking line.
Swindon: Civic Offices, Euclid Street, SN1 2JH Tel: 01793 521734 or 01793 522738
You need to meet with the Registrar within 5 days (not always possible if they are fully booked, but call as a priority anyway).
Who can register the death?
- The next of kin, or a close relative of the person who has died.
- A relative in attendance during the last illness
- A relative living in the district
- If none of the above are available, a person present at the time of death eg. The Officer in charge of the Nursing Home, a solicitor, an executor or the person paying the bill.
For the appointment you will need:
- The certificate of “Cause of Death”, given to you by the person’s doctor.
- Their medical card, if possible.
- Birth and marriage certificates, if possible.
- The registration number of the person’s ‘government pension’ (if applicable)
The information the registrar will require include:
- The date and place of the person’s death
- The full name of the person who has died and their maiden name (if relevant)
- The date and place of their birth
- Their occupation and home address
- If the person is a married woman, her husband’s age and occupation.
- Information as to whether the person was receiving any state benefits or pensions.
The Registrar will issue, and explain:
The Registrar’s Certificate for Burial or Cremation (The Green Form). This allows burial, or for an application for cremation to be made (see below). This form should be given to the Funeral Directors.
Certified Copies of an Entry. An official certificate that death has occurred and has been registered; additional copies will be needed for probate, bank/building society, and others involved in the administration of the person’s estate. (A small charge will be made for these, and generally at least four extra copies are needed, depending on how complex the ‘estate’.)
The Certificate of Registration of Death (Form 344/Form BD8 or White Form) for Dept. of Social Security, if applicable. The Registrar will also provide leaflets relating to bereavement benefits and income tax for the surviving spouse (if appropriate).
4. Burial or Cremation?
Generally a minimum of five full working days is required before a cremation can take place, due to the paperwork needed. Generally 7 – 10 days allows more time for travel, catering, service design etc. between the death and the cremation service.
5. Applications, certifications and approvals for cremation.
Cheltenham: GL52 5JT. Northern edge of the town towards Prestbury, on Bounder’s Lane. Older, gothic, slightly cheaper. 45 minute service time
Gloucester: GL44PA. Turn right off the A38 Northern bypass, just after the Barton St/Painswick Rd. roundabout coming from Stroud. Rectangular, functional, close. Good cafe.
Westerleigh: BS37 8QP. West off the A46, before the M4 roundabout coming from Stroud. Further, but nicer. Saturday service possible.
Forest of Dean: GL14 3HU. Opposite the Dilke Hospital on the Speech House/Coleford Rd from Cinderford.
Swindon, Kingsdown: SN25 6SG. East off the A419 Swindon bypass.
Bath, Haycombe: BA2 2RQ. South of Bath, off the A39/A4 heading towards Wells.
6. Application for burial.
A family who have a relationship with the minister will usually contact the minister personally, asking if they will conduct the funeral, and suggest two or three alternative dates and times. We can do this for you.
The Minister/Council Officer designates and marks the grave to be prepared. The funeral director confirms and arranges all the details for the preparation, such as the size of the coffin, the required depth of the grave (single or double), the date and time of the funeral, and whether the family are likely to want to fill in the grave themselves after the committal.
The funeral director will also liase with the minister to establish and confirm the fine details of the arrangements.
If the family are not religious, Family Tree can recommend an appropriate and experienced celebrant who will work with them to create and conduct the kind of ceremony you want.
7. Organ donation/ Medical research?
7. Organ donation/ Medical research?
This will need to have been discussed with the doctor in advance of death, and preparations will already be in place, as all arrangements need to happen immediately – or very soon after – the person has died (a cornea must be donated within 12 hours…..but every other organ is extremely urgent). If the person wished to donate his/her organs, the next of kin must also have given their approval. The body can be released after the specific organs have been removed.
Your doctor will also advise about the possibility of donating the person’s body for medical research, and will tell you that not every person is suitable to make this donation.
8. Is repatriation required?
9. Wills and probate:
If you are not planning to use a solicitor, we know a kindly expert who will work with you to expedite these complicated matters at a fraction of the cost of a solicitor. You could call David Martin directly and have a chat: 07973 405 997. email@example.com. He comes highly recommended by other clients.
Otherwise you can obtain the required forms from your nearest Probate Office. You may have to attend an informal interview to confirm the details on the form and to discuss any queries.
The Probate Office (Registry) issues a document called “the grant representation”. There are two basic types of grant/deed:
- Probate – issued to one or more of the executors named in the will.
- Letters of Administration – issued when there is a will but no executor has been named (or one named is unable to deal with the estate), or when the person has not left a will, (or the will is considered invalid).
The need for a grant:
Organisations holding money in the person’s name need to know to whom the monies are to be paid. The distribution of the estate is the responsibility of the person named in the deed.
A grant is sometimes not needed if the person’s money can be released without the holder of the monies needing to see a grant – i.e. when the amount is small and there are no complications.
Gloucester Probate Sub-Registry, 2nd Floor, Combined Court Building, Kimbrose Way, Gloucester GL1 2DC. Tel: 01452 522585 General Helpline: 0845 302090
At some point, you will probably need to contact at least some of the following organisations:
The car insurance company (if you were insured under the deceased person’s name). DVLA, to return their driving license, and change registration details.
- Landlord/Local Council/Home Insurance Company.
- Utility and service providers.
- Post Office, to re-direct mail. The Bereavement Trust, who will arrange to take the
- person’s name off all mailing lists to avoid future unsolicited mail.
- Dentists/opticians/hospitals etc. to cancel appointments, and to amend their patient lists.
- Banks/Building Societies to close or amend account details.
- Life Insurance companies to claim entitlements.
- Social Security, to claim any pension or bereavement benefit to which you may be entitled.
- Inland Revenue, Pension Plan Providers, Credit and Store Card companies.
- Return National Insurance documents/State Benefit documents/Passport/Library books and tickets/and any season tickets/TV licenses and claim for a refund.
Please contact Family Tree if you want to go over anything, and consider making use of these friendly, understanding and practical support organisations – or any other sources of support.
Cruse Bereavement Support: 0844 477 9400
The Bereavement Trust
If children or young adults are involved, the Cruse young person’s helpline is 0808 808 1677
Children’s bereavement advice and help
Winston’s Wish specialises in helping bereaved families with children. Tel: 08452 03 04 05
Death Cafe’s: informal, but facilitated self help groups who meet over tea and cake to discuss and share and explore issues about death. www.deathcafe.com
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We will work with you to design and arrange the exact type of funeral that you and your family feel is right for the person who has died. Our aim is to work with you until you know it is exactly right, and then make it all happen smoothly.